宁可我负天下人，也不愿天下人负我。
人善被人欺。

lets just face the truth. no matter how a nice person u are, people will just get used to u, n eventually treat whatever u do as a norm and take advantage of u. i hav been wondering, wats the use of being a nice guy? doing all the shit for pple, thinking that others will appreciate it. Well actually they will just treat it as wat u normally will do and dun really giv a damn to it.

y be a nice guy?
y be a nice guy?
y be a nice guy?

the reality is just so diff from all the unrealistic drama serials or 偶像剧s where wat u did, what effort u had put in, the person will somehow get to know everything bout it through 1)miracle 2)frens 3)coincidence. there is just no point in putting in all the effort, if not any effort, in anyone who juuuuust wun appreciate or dun deserve it. how many times did the person actually feel thankful for wat u hav done? after a while he or she will of course, its human nature, get used to it n just take it for granted.

life is just unfair, y do everything u can, put in all ur effort to just find out that it can never be fair? there is just no point in doing a lot of stuff.